Body Language to Attract Women
Before you have said one word to her, she has already formed her opinion of you based on your body language. This is bad if you’re not correctly using your body language to attract women. Leading sociologists estimate that over 90% of our communication is non-verbal communication done through body language. This means that even if you are saying all the right words but are not using the correct body language, there is a good chance that she is not going to be interested.
That is why I have written this article, to show you how you can use your body language to attract women.
1. Say goodbye to insecurities and hello to confidence.
The number one body language style that women respond to is someone who looks confident and is having a good time. It says “I am comfortable and you should be comfortable when you are around me”. To do this, you have to stop insecure gestures such as slumped posture, fidgeting, glancing around hesitantly, and shy or awkward hand movements. This tells women that you are not comfortable with who you are, and makes them uncomfortable to be around you.
These insecure gestures need to be replaced with confident gestures such as smiling, laughing, good posture, eye contact when you are talking. Making these gestures will make her want to get to know you and understand all the great things that make you so confident.
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2. Create Space Around You
If you look around, you will notice that some men naturally have more space around them then other men. Having a lot of space helps these men to look confident and shows that they are a dominate style male. These men don’t look crowded, don’t try to dodge other people or make room for other people. By doing this, these men are using their body language to attract women because women are subconsciously attracted to dominate style men.
To pull this off, you need to make your movements slower and more decisive. With every movement, you need to seem sure of yourself. Watch other dominate style males and try to copy or mimic their dominate style movements.
3. Enter Her Space and Then Leave
One of the most effect ways to use your body language to attract women is to enter a woman’s personal space and then leave it. I am not talking about getting right in her face, that will just make her uncomfortable and want to leave. What you do is when you are starting to talk to her or when you introduce yourself, lean in close to her like you are trying to hear what she is saying. When is finishes her sentence, lean back out and possible take a small step backwards. This makes her want to come to you which creates feelings of attraction.
Another thing you can do to demonstrate confidence is to create physical contact by letting your shoe touch hers, letting your leg touch hers, or to lightly touch her hand or arm. This should only be done after you have established a level of comfort with her and you two are talking easily. If you try to create physical contact too soon, it will make her uncomfortable around you and she will leave.
So the next time you are out, make sure you are using your body language to attract women. No matter how many times you read this article, you won’t be able to master using your body language to attract women until you get out into the real world and try it. Make sure that when you use these techniques, you observe the reaction women have to them. After a while, you will begin to use these techniques subconsciously and will naturally send women the correct body language signals.